EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION GUIDELINES.

Communication in any kind of relationship(friendship, intimate and marrital) is very foundamantal as it is the basis footstool to establishing a relatopnship.
Without good communication, mutual understanding becomes a problem as many people find it difficult to pass the right message they wish to pass due fear or lack of good verbal and intellectual skill
Communication is the passing of information or instruction (emotional, physical, verbal) to someone with the sole aim of understanding.When this is not acheived furstration tends to creep in therefore making either party withdrawl from the other.
Communication is skill not something you can just stumble upon. As a kid i never had the oppurtunity to mix up with older people except my parents and teachers in school. This made me timid and uncomfortable when am around older people especilally when asked questions. Gradually i realised that my timidness was becoming a problem to me as i was becoming incommunicable not just with older people also with my age mates.so i began a self-development program which i will summarise for you as thus:
1. Self-confidence; without this you are just a fly stucked in a bottle of drink.
2. Self-talk; such as- i am the best, i can't be scared of anything, i can do this..
3. Self-discovery; be your own brand and not a geek in someone else principle or stlye.
4. Self-personality; have a unique personality and be flexible with it.don't be a gronch or a pin in someone elses ear.know when to talk and when to keep mute or discret.
5. Do you understand? Before you start up a rapport with someone, try study the personality of the person and come up with a good or fair conclusion. A bad conclusion will make communication with such person tasky cuz all you will be thinking of is the bad stuffs.
6. Questions and Answer; there is nothing like a wrong answer but a wrong question. Answer every question asked properly and ask the right question specifically.
7. Don't be a snob; snobs are furstrated fellow trying to feel important or noticed.
8. Always wear a smile and remember to be generous.
9. Do the arch thing; when under pressure, form arch with your first two finger adding pressure to it. This will releif you of some pressure within you.
10. Don't answer a question you do not know.
Generally be smart. Read more, talk less, smile more, leave room for others to make you smile and use you time for things of much value.